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The Diocesan team of LGBTQIA+ Chaplains work together to offer information and pastoral care to LGBTQIA+ people, their friends, family, and ministers. Find out more about the LGBTQIA+ Chaplaincy team and contact a chaplain here. 

If you need any information about the chaplaincy, please contact the LGBTQIA+ Advisor to the Bishop of Dover, Fr Denis Hartley.

LGBTQIA+ Chaplains work alongside and support LGBTQIA+ people, their families, friends, ministers and anyone with an interest in LGBTQIA+ matters. 

The chaplaincy is a safe and encouraging listening space to ensure that people can be offered appropriate pastoral and spiritual care. Alongside this, it is also a place to get advice and guidance.

Chaplains work within , embracing a non-judgemental attitude toward persons in regard of their sexuality, welcoming and valuing every person as equal in the eyes of God.

Chaplains will listen unconditionally to the lived experience of any person who seeks their support.

Every person has ethical decisions to make about how to live out their God-given sexuality. These questions are common to each one of us, whatever our sexuality or gender identity; chaplains are called to walk alongside people in this discernment.  

Our chaplains attend the at St. Peter's 91Ó°ÊÓ and are available to help there.

Please meet our Chaplains and if you would like to talk to one of them, please do send an email - details at the bottom of the page.

What you can expect from a chaplain:

• they will be affirming and accepting of you;
• they will listen to you with attentiveness and respect;
• they will seek to understand you and your life, hopefully enabling you to gain new insights;
• they will wish the best for you – especially in your spiritual life and walk with God;
• they will be with you in your pain, anxiety, and in your joy;
• they will be working within the House of Bishops’ guidelines on human sexuality;
• they will not ‘tell you what to do’, or what choices to make;
• they will not question your integrity, your self-understanding, or your identity;
• they will not judge you, but will seek only to understand you;
• they will not seek to change you;
• they will not breach your confidentiality unless they think that your life, or that of another, is in danger.

Revd Deacon Pat Wright Pat trained in nursing and spent 25yrs working with those infected and affected by HIV/AIDS, including 8yrs in Africa. This time, plus working in parishes and hospital chaplaincy, means that she is experienced in listening to and talking with people from many faiths and backgrounds.
Revd Denis Hartley Fr Denis Hartley has a real passion for supporting diversity and inclusion, he has been an LGBTQI+ Chaplain for over five years and as Adviser, Fr Denis is looking forward to developing the role of the chaplaincy more widely whilst at the same time supporting parishes and clergy to reach out to the LGBT community. Fr Denis said ‘I look forward to working with Bishop Rose and the Diocesan staff as LGBTQI+ Adviser. I see the focus of the role as supporting parishes and clergy to reach out to the LGBT community with words of comfort and a place at the table. That despite recent setbacks, LGBT folk are still our beloved and respected brothers, sisters, and friends.’
Caroline Spencer Caroline Spencer has served the Church in a variety of roles over many years, at parish, deanery, diocesan and national levels. Currently, she is a Lay Member of the Chapter of 91Ó°ÊÓ Cathedral and a Spiritual Accompanier. Two of her three adult children are members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Caroline lives with her husband in the countryside between Ashford and 91Ó°ÊÓ.
Karen Sanders  Karen trained as an Adult Nurse after leaving school in 1980. Karen is now a senior lecturer in Nursing at a London University. Throughout her career Karen has enjoyed caring for individuals, working with colleagues and supporting students who are diverse in many ways. Karen became a Street Pastor in 2008, she gave up this role this year due to changing life commitments.   In 2010 she helped set up a Healthcare Centre at the Church Army Headquarters in Nairobi, Kenya.   Karen has been a volunteer at the Maidstone Churches Winter Night Shelter since 2013 when it was opened. Karen intends to serve on the team again this year, supporting individuals who are diverse and have a wide variety of needs.  Karen has been a voluntary team member at the Living Well (91Ó°ÊÓ Diocesan Centre for Healing and Wholeness) for several years, where she provides support to those in need and a listening ear during Deeper Healing Days at the Living Well and at Healing Hubs throughout the 91Ó°ÊÓ.
Shannon Louise (She/They) Shannon attends St. Mildred's and St. Paul's churches in 91Ó°ÊÓ, and is a member of the PCC, Diocesan Synod as well as a Safeguarding Officer. Shannon is very proud to be a part of St. Paul's choir and Open Table in 91Ó°ÊÓ. After working in care homes for 8 years Shannon decided to start training as an adult nurse at Christ Church in 91Ó°ÊÓ.  “I am queer and came out a few years ago with the support of my curate and friends at my church. I'm neuro divergent and a single mum to a daughter with additional needs as well as domestic abuse survivor. My aim within my chaplaincy is to create a safer and more exclusive space for LGBTQIA+ people as well as young people, survivors of abuse and people with additional needs.”

Confidential contact 

To contact one of our Chaplains please email LGBT@diocant.org.
 
In the email, please include which Chaplain you would like to contact and any additional information you would like to add.
 
Your privacy and safety is important. The email will be seen by LGBTQIA+ Advisor to the Bishop of Dover, Fr Denis Hartley, no other person other than the chaplain you are addressing your message to will see your note.
 
Your email address is not captured for any other purpose than allowing the chaplain to contact you. All subsequent emails between you and the chaplain supporting you are confidential.

Open Table

This service is for LGBTQIA+ people, their friends, families and anyone who wants to belong in an accepting, loving community. 

When? The second Sunday of each month

Where? St. Peter’s Anglican Church, 91Ó°ÊÓ

What time? Refreshments from 3pm, with service starting at 3:30pm

At least one of our LGBTQIA+ Chaplains will be at each service and available to talk.

For more information email LGBT@diocant.org. 

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